The ex-GF did that announcement on purpose. She wanted OP to feel pain. She clearly hated him for a long time before they broke up. And then they needed money, but didn't want the bio father to have any connection. That way they could tell the child "He despises your existence – only WE love you". If bio dad is in the picture, that ruins the revenge they were trying for. The sad thing is, they will do EVERYTHING they can to drive him away, as much as they act like they respect his tenacity.
Dude allowed his GF to hangout alone with his roomate. at 2am when his other friend messaged proof of the cheating, he woke up, and went to his roomates room where his GF was at!? I mean, seriously??!! OP allowed blatant disrespect from them, i mean, they probably thought OP was okay with them cheating. Just from what was described it seemed like roomate and GF were in a relationship, and OP was just a side piece. I mean, its not shocking most of your mutual friends didnt care cause you had zero boundaries. Theres trusting people, and then there is being an oblivious moron like this guy. I mean, it was his place, and he was the one who had to packup and leave. No bro, roomate and his stuff would have been outside that minute, and GF's parents would have been called and after explaining everything would have been told to get their child. Its no wonder that the ex and former friend tried scamming OP for money, they percieved him as being a weak moron. OP seems like he is overly emotional, and conflict avoident. Makes him easy to manipulate and use as a doormat. I wouldnt be surprised if his fiance had a boyfriend.
The ex-GF did that announcement on purpose. She wanted OP to feel pain. She clearly hated him for a long time before they broke up. And then they needed money, but didn't want the bio father to have any connection. That way they could tell the child "He despises your existence – only WE love you". If bio dad is in the picture, that ruins the revenge they were trying for. The sad thing is, they will do EVERYTHING they can to drive him away, as much as they act like they respect his tenacity.
Isn’t that a literal parental alienation?! The fact she literally reached out 5 years later proves that and I don’t think it’s acceptable at any court
It seems like their need to get money was their big mistake.
Yeah I wouldnt even entertain the call or wierd stalking. Block and restraining order.
Get a PI, follow the mom and Ted. Find any ammo and get their parental rights taken away.. Cheaters aren't positive influences on kids.
Dude allowed his GF to hangout alone with his roomate. at 2am when his other friend messaged proof of the cheating, he woke up, and went to his roomates room where his GF was at!? I mean, seriously??!! OP allowed blatant disrespect from them, i mean, they probably thought OP was okay with them cheating. Just from what was described it seemed like roomate and GF were in a relationship, and OP was just a side piece. I mean, its not shocking most of your mutual friends didnt care cause you had zero boundaries. Theres trusting people, and then there is being an oblivious moron like this guy. I mean, it was his place, and he was the one who had to packup and leave. No bro, roomate and his stuff would have been outside that minute, and GF's parents would have been called and after explaining everything would have been told to get their child. Its no wonder that the ex and former friend tried scamming OP for money, they percieved him as being a weak moron. OP seems like he is overly emotional, and conflict avoident. Makes him easy to manipulate and use as a doormat. I wouldnt be surprised if his fiance had a boyfriend.
She did it at that time to break his upcoming marriage. Child support was just a plus to ruin him just a bit more.